Being a teenager is quite an experience. Hormones are kicking through your body , you have mental breakdowns and one moment you are on top of the world and the next you hit rock bottom.
Here is what I have learnt during my teenage years-
- Don’t follow what others are doing blindly. Go where your heart desires and don’t succumb under peer pressure.
- Don’t indulge in alcohol just as yet.
- STAY away from smoking.
- Academics is important even if it is not everything.
- Pursue your hobby, be it writing, a sport or playing an instrument.
- Keep your friends small circle and don’t trust everyone.
- Listen to your parents and your friends. You are not always correct.
- Don’t do something just to prove someone wrong.
- Play video games but in moderation
- You can’t live without social media but don’t make it an addiction.Networking sites like Quora are much better than Snapchat and Facebook.
- Don’t demand products of luxury brands from your parents. If you want a Gucci bag, earn it.
- Be grateful for everything.
- You learn something from every single person and object in this world.
- Don’t just watch motivational videos and read philosophical quotes. If you want to follow them, be cautious
- Infatuation isn’t love so don’t fall for every other person.Get to know the person first.
- Have ambitions and dreams. If you don’t have something to be excited about or don’t have anything in particular to do when you wake up, you are wasting your life.
- Don’t oversleep or overeat just because you are feeling sad.
- Listen to music. It does help improve your mood.
- Express your feelings to your loved ones.
- You only have your family in the darkest times except one or two friends(who are basically family)
- Don’t over-trust. Your best friend can become your worst enemy tomorrow.
Over and out
“Money is not the only answer, but it makes a difference”- Barack Obama
We all seem to go after money. We all think that being ‘rich’ is the ultimate goal.We believe that once we have earned tons of money, our lives are successful. We dream of staying in luxurious hotels, dining in high-end restaurants and travelling business class with our OWN money.
It is very certain that money plays a very important part in our life. Nobody does not love having a comfy bed, a large T.V., having good food to eat and travelling and exploring the world. But is money everything? My answer to that is a big NO! The goal isn’t to earn money but being happy, satisfied and living lives on your own terms. Having money does not equal to being happy. I would rather have a middle-sized house and have freedom to take my own decisions in my job rather than having a big house but being under my boss’ command regarding all decisions. For me, if I am not free, I can never be rich even if I have lots of money. People say that they might cry in a Lamborghini than on a bus but I say to them that if you are sad and depressed, you would never care where you physically are because sadness doesn’t discriminate on basis of how much money is in your bank. Taking part in unethical activities and earning millions would never give you the satisfaction and you would always feel guilty deep within. People who earn billions commit suicide because they are depressed due to drug or alcohol addiction or they are not happy with what they are really doing in their life while people who are not so rich are often found to be the happiest. While some of us groan for the latest phones in the market(myself included), the poor always are often found to be happy and satisfied because they enjoy whatever they have.While me and my friends want the latest games for PlayStation and are still not content even after receiving them, the eyes of my domestic help’s son glitter when he receives a bar of small chocolate. Money does help but ultimately it is your mindset and thinking that decide how happy you will be.
Once you become rich, you realise that being rich does not feel that great to what it seemed like earlier. Fine-dining, Five-Star hotels and lavish villas would slowly start boring you. But if you help someone to stand on their own feet, the satisfaction you would feel would be immeasurable. You would never see billionaires like Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg flaunting their wealth by wearing Gucci belts or Louis Vuitton shoes. But what they are often found doing is helping the society in some way or the other because for them, happiness isn’t just money but it is the satisfaction that they get using their money in a meaningful way and doing something for the benefit of others!
Your goal shouldn’t be to be rich but it should be to be happy and to do something exemplary for society. Having money won’t make you extraordinary but changing the lives of others for the better will!
Over and Out